Can An Unmarried Girl Or A Single Woman Get A Cat?

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Life partner: can an unmarried girl have a cat?

When choosing a pet for themselves, many girls stop at a purring companion. Cats and cats, despite all their independence and pride, are able to bring a lot of joy to the hostess, simply curling up into a ball on their knees or purring nearby. But superstitious people say that unmarried people should never have such pets.

Signs about a cat and an unmarried girl

In general, the list of signs for unmarried people is very extensive. All of them are somehow connected with marriage, or rather, with its absence. And cats in the house of a free woman are no exception.

It is believed that an unmarried girl, having a cat at home, will forever be left without a spouse. Signs justify this in different ways - they say that the cat will be a jealous owner and will not let potential husbands near its owner, then they argue that the cat, being a classic witch's familiar, will direct a lonely girl along the path of dark magic, and she herself will not want to go out get married. Say, he will prefer a free witch life to a married one. There is one more explanation from the superstitious - the cat in the house (male) will demonstrate to the Universe (or to other higher powers in which the person believes) that you already have a man in the house, and the Universe will not send you your true faithful.

Black cats have long been associated with magic and witches

Feng Shui view

According to feng shui, all things in the house have a certain energy that moves in orderly flows. Residents are also endowed with their own energy - like pets.

However, feng shui adherents do not believe that a cat in the house can in any way affect the marriage or its absence from the owner.

Is it possible to suppress the action of a bad omen

If you are superstitious people and want to get married, then it is not at all necessary to look for good hands for your pet or refuse to establish a cat:

• do not call your pet a human name, especially a masculine one. Let the Universe not confuse a cat with a husband;
• try to neutralize the bad omen about the cat with other superstitions that are believed to "attract men to the house." For example, plant a holly (traditionally male) in a pot, wear turquoise or rose quartz jewelry (stones that supposedly attract love);
• if you haven't got a pet yet, pay attention to the kitties. Superstition is more negative about a cat in a free woman's house than a cat.

How a cat really affects marriage

Family psychology experts argue that the cat can really protect the mistress from marriage, but not because of some of its magical properties. A woman who lives alone and has a pet forms a kind of couple with him. Emotional attachment is present, the physical expression of love (petting the cat, scratching it - this is precisely the manifestation of love) is also present. It's no secret that the relationship between the owner and the pet often looks like human friendship or partnership.

Some people who are deliberately looking for a mate have a serious incentive for this - an unpleasant feeling of loneliness and uselessness. And the pet effectively fills this emotional hole. As a result, a person is no longer looking for anyone and does not need anyone, and therefore the chances of marriage are significantly reduced.

Another simple, but very unpleasant moment is allergies. If you have a pet, then its presence can simply nip in the bud a romantic line that has begun, if your gentleman is allergic. However, this is far from necessary - sometimes such tests are only beneficial to the relationship.

I'm allergic to cats, and my then-future husband's neighbor had a good, well-fed Briton. It was very difficult for us to meet and spend time at his house, because after half an hour in his room, I began to sneeze uncontrollably, my eyes turned red and swollen - there is no time for romance or kisses.

For an allergy sufferer, a cat or dog in the house of a loved one is a real tragedy.

The famous Russian fashion historian Alexander Vasiliev (host of the "Fashionable Sentence" program) also has an opinion on this matter. He claims that an unmarried woman with a cat will never find a husband for herself. Alexander Vasiliev justifies his opinion not with signs, but with such an analogy - something hairy, eating a lot, periodically caressing and snoring creature has already appeared in your house. So the husband's vacancy is formally occupied. Whether the reader agrees with this definition of a spouse is up to her to decide.

Even if you really want to get married, but this does not work out, you should not blame your pet for this. Most likely, the problem lies elsewhere. Try to abandon the intentional search for a spouse and live your life - and a companion, if you need one, will be there by itself.